In hindsight, I will say that I sort of deserved it when I have had issues brought to my attention. When I started with SH, I did not realize the forum was so public and, as I've said in another post a while ago, I think all of us "start" with SH with a significant lack of trust. That is not our fault and not SH's fault....it's because we come here and lay it on the line (take a risk/chance on SH) when there are so many bad players out in the interwebs that I, for one, expected to find out it was all a scam. And it was NOT! Far from it, in fact. Even in writing this post, I am being careful about talking about my "jaded past" in the forum because I need to take responsibility, too. LOL. But I am operating wholeheartedly from a position of trust in SH now and I understand better why the things I said were not suitable for the forum and not fair criticisms. I own that. SH has reasons for the forum rules, which I also understand a lot more now.
PS: I have been an independent business owner for a long time... so it's not easy for me to feel supervised. I'm used to being in charge. My bad!