@ckgirl it just takes time sometimes, sometimes CHs have to report results to their teams or other people and sometimes the suggestions are too good to choose from, and then sometimes they abandon. But if it is a guaranteed contest, it will be chosen at some point, have to just be patient. I know, I know it's frustrating and makes you anxious sometimes, especially with all the orange lately. But we're all here for you and many of us are feeling the same way and waiting on one or two as a hopeful break. Maybe play a crossword puzzle to relax? xD Oh wait, now I wonder how many here actually do that kind of thing like play crossword puzzles, word games, scrabble, and other things to help them and if they really help them. Lol.
Anyway, ckgirl, I know you'll get there -- just hang in there and remember we're always here to shoot the chit-chat with xD and a lot more of us will understand your frustrations than you realize. I know now that most people's favorite color on here is now green or conversely they hate that #F5B03C color of orange (yes, I looked it up just to see if there may be any psychological triggers to that color XD I'm a geek, leave me alone, lol).
-- hope any of this could make anyone laugh, I know a lot of you/us need it right now.